As wedding photographers in Lake Geneva, Wisconsin, one of the areas of wedding planning that can make the biggest difference toward the quality of the images and the final album is the wedding day timeline. Here are some issues to think about when developing your timeline:
- First Look
- Greeting Guests (Most of our clients do not do this following the ceremony anymore.)
- Distance between ceremony and reception locations
- Family Photo Session
- Cocktail Hour
- Garter and Bouquet toss
One of the more stressful parts of the happy couple’s day centers around not seeing each other before the ceremony. Traditionally, the groom waits to see his bride until the moment when the beautiful bride walks down the aisle in all her glory. This is a moment full of emotion. However, this traditional approach can really compress the time available for some of the most important photos of the day. Consider all that needs to be accomplished after the couple says I do: greet guests, family photos, wedding party photos, romantic photos, detail shots of the reception, etc. Over 90 % of Matt Mason Photography clients ultimately decide to do a first look. (Note that the tradition of not seeing the bride goes back to the days of arranged marriages.)
So what is a First Look? This is a special moment when the groom is able to see his bride for the first time before the ceremony. Often these are among my favorite photos of the entire day. We usually like to position the groom looking away out over a field, or at the end of pier, or even by a beautiful old oak tree. Here are a few examples of the first look. Photos capture a special story as the bride approaches the groom for the big reveal. It is wonderful, romantic and precious to see their expressions as they see each other for the first time simultaneously on their wedding day. Here is a another blog I wrote about the first look.
This special & unique event isn’t a replacement to the walking down the aisle photo because that amazing moment still happens. So in essence you are adding to the day by getting a second special look instead of replacing it.
BOTTOM LINE: If you do the first look this will generally bring the following benefits:
- More & better photos
- Less time pressure
- More time together on your big day
- Less stress & more fun
- Get to your party sooner
In our experience a receiving line is one of the least efficient way to greet guests. This can take more than an hour of precious time that we generally don't have. However, sometimes you have very little choice in the matter. A common way to resolve the desire to greet your guests is to dismiss the rows. I find that this usually cuts about 50% off the time of a traditional line. Another great way to maximize your timeline is to greet guests at your reception after you have finished your meal but your guests are still seated. If you do the third option you need to hide away after you walk down the aisle so you don’t accidentally end up doing an impromptu receiving line because you get mobbed. Another idea is to do a “soft entrance” and greet people informally at the cocktail hour. This is our personal favorite approach.
Family Photo Session
When planning out your timeline we suggest thinking about how many family photos you will want from your wedding photography package.
- Do you have a large family or a small family?
- Will you want to focus on immediate family or will you want to have many extended family portraits?
- Are there many shots that will require children under the age of five?
We have had family photo shoots that are done in 15 minutes and some that go well over an hour. Our biggest suggestion here is that you first choose the list that is important to you as a couple. Then share this list with each of your mothers and see if you are missing anything major. Don’t delegate the list writing to someone else or they might copy and paste a huge list from the internet of groupings you don’t really care for. Please email this bullet pointed list before we have your planning session with us. We need this no later than one month before your ceremony.
Distance between ceremony and reception locations
Weddings in the Lake Geneva area often tend to have ceremony and reception locations relatively close. In fact, more than half are at the same location at one of our beautiful resorts like Grand Geneva, The Abbey, Geneva National, Lake Lawn Resort, The Ridge, The Riviera and Hawk’s View Golf Club. This is very convenient for your guests but it also tends to compress your timeline from the ceremony to cocktail hour because people need something to do before the reception. We have to be very efficient with the use of photography time.
On the other hand when there is a distance to travel between the ceremony and reception this can also take up precious photo time. Remember that wedding parties move very slowly for some reason. In either case we need to carefully consider the time and distance between ceremony and reception.
If you don't do a first look, have a large family for family photos or have a lot of distance between the ceremony and reception you will probably need to use some or all of the cocktail hour to get key photos captured.
Garter and Bouquet toss
As we consider how to use the hours that come with your photography package we inevitably need to know if you are planning to do a garter and/or bouquet toss. If you have a lot of young single friends it is a very fun and often humorous part of the evening. On the other hand, if you only have a handful of single friends many tend to forgo the tradition. If you do one usually we schedule this near the end of your evening just before we plan to go, between 9:00 to 9:30.
As part of your wedding package with Matt Mason Photography we will go over these issues and see how they relate your big day. Thinking about this before our meeting will help to streamline our phone conversation. Click this link: Timeline Samples. This link is a PDF file with two different timeline samples.